☕️ the biggest lie in social media marketing right now


“If you’re tired of creating content, hire me to do your social media marketing.”

I see so many of my peers still using this line and just… UGH.

I’ll be so for real with you right now if you see a social media girlie saying this in their marketing - it's kinda a red flag.

Because what worked 10 years ago (hell, what worked 3 years ago) is a wildly different social media landscape than the one we’re operating in right now.

And I say this with love. Truly. As someone who has been creating social content for all types of businesses over the last decade.

That line USED to be true.

Back when social media was more about consistency than connection. Back when you could post three times a week, rotate a few stock photos, sprinkle in an inspirational quote, and call it visibility. Back when audiences weren’t expecting depth, perspective, personality, or access.

In that era? Yes. You could absolutely hire someone to “handle your social” and barely be involved.

But in 2026?

If someone is promising you totally hands-off social media marketing, what they're actually promising you is that they will fill your feed. That's it.

And filling your feed is NOT the same as generating an ROI from your content.

Effective social media marketing in today's world is built on presence, connection, and authenticity. (I know, all the buzzwords that probably make you want to blow your brains out)

Butttttt if you are a service provider, your audience needs to see your face. They need to hear your voice. They need to understand how you think. They need to feel your perspective.

And that doesn't happen if you fully remove yourself from the process.

Because when you remove yourself, all your social media girlie is left with are copy+paste forgettable trends, generic AI output facts about your industry, and a sprinkle of semi-curated inspirational messages. And if you've been paying attention to anything I teach - y'all already know those content formats are all a race to the bottom.

Now, that doesn’t mean you have to know what to post on your own. It doesn’t mean you need to understand hooks or trends or analytics or content batching strategies. (That's still on your social girlie)

But you do have to contribute to the conversation.

Whether that looks like a dedicated content day once a month, where your social team shoots with you. Or your social girlie sends you prompts and tells you to hit record and yap so she can edit it into something worthwhile. Or you open a Google Doc and brain-dump your thoughts so someone else can refine them into coherent carousels.

You still have to be involved in some capacity.

Outsourcing execution is smart. You should 10000% be doing that.

But outsourcing your you-ness is not possible, and it's why the line of "hire me so you don't have to worry about creating content" isn't f*cking real life.

And the same goes for product-based businesses.

Your social team does not magically know your internal capacity, what’s launching next quarter, what inventory is tight, what operational changes are happening, or what your team is navigating unless you communicate that.

And there is no way to communicate effectively with your audience if the business itself is not communicating effectively with the person responsible for communicating to the audience (aka your social team).

See how that all connects?

There is nothing passive about social media marketing anymore.

It's a collaborative process with strategic delegation and smart distribution.

There is no “I’m tired of creating content, you handle it completely, so I can disappear.”

Unfortunately, that era of social media has been over for quite some time.

Catch ya next week,

Marissa


It's a secret, Wappingers Falls, NY 12590
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