☕️ content can never come first


If you missed my email last week about 2026 predictions, start there because this thought builds directly on it.

Caught up? Cool.

Here's the thing most people forget when they’re spiraling over content, engagement, and social media as a whole...the online space is not real life.

We all understand this in theory, but somewhere along the way, we stopped operating like it’s true.

So, for those that need the reminder: No matter how hard you try, content is not a substitute for substance.

That doesn’t mean content can’t matter or that it can’t create real impact. It absolutely can. Your content can directly lead to money, momentum, visibility, and opportunity.

I mean, hell, I make a living helping businesses use content in ways to do exactly that.

But social media is still its own universe, and people get themselves into trouble when they start treating attention in that universe like it automatically translates to credibility, trust, or depth in this one.

Why? Because you can be whoever the f*ck you want on the internet.

You can curate a voice. You can design beautiful visuals. You can package yourself in a way that looks compelling, polished, and convincing from the outside.

You can get attention, spark conversations, and build a following that thinks they understand you.

But voice and visuals are the easiest parts of a brand to manipulate.

Your actual brand? Your story, your why, your values, your mission, the standards you operate by, and the way you make decisions?

That’s the part that carries through into how you run your business, both online and offline.

That’s the through line. That’s the part people feel when they work with you.

At some point, the online version of you has to meet reality, and when that moment comes, all that’s left is whether the experience of working with you matches the story you’ve been telling.

Most content (if we’re being honest) is fleeting.

It gets scrolled past, skipped, forgotten. You can spend hours stressing over a single post, worrying about whether it lands or performs, and still have it make little to no difference in your real, tangible life.

Sometimes it crosses over. Sometimes it compounds. But more often than not, it’s just a moment that passes.

That’s why content was never meant to exist in a vacuum.

Content is meant to amplify your brand, not act as a standalone asset. And it isn’t meant to imitate depth, credibility, or trust that hasn’t been earned offline first.

It can showcase a brand. It can even help create a brand. But if there’s nothing solid underneath it, it will eventually disappoint people.

Because popularity online doesn’t automatically mean you’re good at what you do. Likes don’t equal sales. Views don’t equal depth. And a polished digital presence doesn’t mean the business behind it is actually sound.

It’s the same reason people say “don’t meet your heroes.” The image can be flawless, but the reality can fall flat when the substance isn’t there.

You can create as much content as you want. You can lean on AI. You can shape perception. You can say all the "right" things.

But when someone hands you their hard-earned money, time, or trust? Your content goes away, and the business takes over.

And this is where people get it twisted - they create content for content's sake (and this is the content that irks my girk to its core)

Content cannot come first (!!)

Your business comes first. Aka you start at the brand level.

Thennnn your content gets created from there.

When you reverse that order? When you put content before clarity, visuals before values, and voice before substance...you end up building something that looks good online but doesn’t hold up in real life.

And that’s a regret you don’t usually feel right away, but will almost always feel later.

Brands that last aren’t just well-marketed. They’re lived.

Show up consistently in how you think, how you work, how you treat people, and how you make decisions, whether or not anyone is watching.

All that is to say:

Content should be a bridge, not the destination.

Meaning your brand should hold up whether someone finds you through a screen… or sits across from you in real life.

Catch ya next week,

Marissa


It's a secret, Wappingers Falls, NY 12590
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